Being the psychology freak that I am, I consider myself pretty knowledgeable and adept when it comes to understanding people and their emotions. I know that no matter what the intentions are of ones actions, the feelings they generate in others are something the "actor" cannot control. Feelings are personal. Feelings are something that are shaped by the experiences and environment of the person experiencing them. Feelings are never wrong. When there is an emotional reaction to something that is unexpected it takes time, communication, and true open mindedness to over come and change the once natural reaction or feelings to certain things.
People don't become who they are overnight, and you cannot undo bad habits or remove triggers to certain emotional reactions overnight. Attempting to force someone to change simply will not work.
Do not tell me how I feel. Do not tell me how I
should feel. Let me be who I am. I will never be who you want me to be; as I can only be myself.
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